What is a boudoir session really like?
I get asked this a lot.
Not just “what do I wear” or “how much does it cost” but the real question underneath:
What actually happens when I show up?
Is this going to be awkward?
Will I even know what I’m doing?
The short answer: you show up, and I’ve got the rest.
You don’t need to have experience, confidence, or even a clue what you’re doing. You just need to walk in. I’ll take it from there.
Here’s what you can expect when you book a session with me at my New Hampshire Boudoir Studio!
WHEN YOU ARRIVE
You’ll walk into a quiet, private space that’s been designed to make you feel safe, held, and excited.
The energy is calm, but warm and friendly. Everything is already set up for you. You don’t need to bring anything but yourself.
You’ll head straight to the glam chair where my makeup artist will be waiting to get you glammed up. They’re incredible, and more than that—they are calming, genuinely kind, and make sure you still feel and look like yourself. We’ll talk, play some music, and ease into the day together. Nothing rushed. Nothing forced.
PICKING YOUR OUTFIT(S)
This part is SO fun. My client closet has over 300 pieces from size XXS to 6X. We’ll go through them together and find something that fits your body and your vibe.
Soft and romantic? Great.
Dark and moody? Let’s go.
Something sexy and bold? I’m already pulling ideas.
You’ll never have to decide alone. I style every client head-to-toe so you feel good in what you’re wearing before we even start shooting.
DURING THE SESSION
You do not need to know how to pose.
You do not need to “know your angles.”
You do not need to feel confident when you walk in.
That’s my job!
I’ll guide you through every pose, every hand placement, every expression. Nothing is left up to guesswork. It’s slow, intentional, and actually really fun. You’ll be surprised how quickly you relax into it. Most people end up laughing halfway through, saying “Oh my god, I didn’t think I could do this but… I’m doing it.”
And yes—you’re going to look and feel stunning!
AFTER YOUR SESSION
You’ll leave feeling different. I can’t explain it, but you’ll feel it.
Within a few weeks, you’ll get a private gallery with your images. You don’t have to pick and choose or upgrade to unlock them. What’s yours is yours. Every image I retouch is included, always.
If you want to print them or add a keepsake, I offer those options. But you’ll never be pressured to spend more. I believe in full transparency from the moment you book.
THIS ISN’T JUST ABOUT THE IMAGES
Boudoir isn’t something you do when you feel ready.
It’s something that helps you get there.
I’ve had clients walk in holding their breath and leave like they finally exhaled.
I’ve had women cry when they see their photos, not because of how they looked, but because of how they felt.
This is about you.
Fully. Boldly. Unapologetically.
IF YOU’RE THINKING ABOUT IT…
Start here: newenglandboudoir.com/instantminis
The Instant Mini is the easiest way to say yes to yourself.
$99 to reserve your date.
The rest? Set up on a payment plan that works for you.
No pressure. No sales tactics. No pretending to be someone you’re not.
Just you. Just real. Just yes.
XOXO NELLIE